This page is from "Wife and Hasband". Here I rewrited to be legible without chinese fonts installed. "Wife" and "Husband"
Quest - ok, I will do it. Come back from those hot topics and answer some questions people!  : ancient term for wife. also, today's official and formal term for a man's wife. I like this word, most beautiful way to say "wife" imo. In Japan,  means "wife and children.
 : married woman. polite way to address a married woman. It can mean wife.
 : formal way to address your wife/husband in front of other people (usually strangers or not so close friends), but some people (e.g. me) find it very  (what is meat linen ?).  and  belong here, too.
 : this one you should know, very casual way of calling your wife in front of friends, or people you know well.
[ ]: literary term for women or females, usually older ones, not girls.
 : same as  , but it's an older usage, it's almost classical chinese.
In Japan  is the typical.
 : mister/man/husband/teacher/knowledgeable person
 : see  
 : see  
 : noun. woman : adjective (no equivalent in English? feminine?)
: old woman
 : female
and these words for "man"?:  : see  
 : see  
 : see  
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roddy - Here in Beijing, the most common one I hear for your own husband or wife (when talking to third parties) is  (In Japan,  is lover other than wife). If you are talking about someone else's,  , or  / are all used. I've never heard  or  to refer to a spouse (I have never heard  at all, I think). Another way of distinguishing the genders is  /  - I'd originally thought this was for students only, but people have told me I won't like a book or a film because I'm a  , and it seems to be used where English might have 'some guy' or 'a girl', when the person in question is fairly young. There's also a karaoke classic along the lines of '?  ,    . . .' which I'm sure many of us have heard. Roddy PS. Of course, if you are annoyed with them, there's always ? . Don't let them hear you though. | |
skylee - In Hong Kong,  and  are commonly used to refer to one's own or other people's spouse. | |
JoH - How about if you are directly addressing someone's wife? For instance, if I meet my teacher's wife, and I know her surname is Zhang, what is the best (polite) way to address her?Thanks, Jo | |
skylee - If the teacher's name is Zhang, then his wife is Zhang taitai ( /  ). Or perhaps you may call her  . | |
JoH - Thanks Skylee. Do you know if that holds all over the country (bearing in mind Roddy's comment above)? | |
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